Drowning victim's body found
PROVO — The three-day search for the body of a 25-year-old Brigham Young University student came to end Tuesday after the man's father was able to point rescuers in the right direction.
Around 9:43 a.m. Tuesday, a search and rescue helicopter passed over an area one mile south and one mile west of Utah State Park Marina and spotted the body of Craig Decker, of West Jordan, just as it floated to the surface, said Utah County Sheriff's Sgt. Spencer Cannon.
Decker, a BYU student majoring in bioengineering, was sailing on a 14-foot catamaran with his parents, Lyle and Marie Decker, Saturday evening when he stepped off the boat to recover an oar. Craig Decker disappeared into the 3-foot-high waves, and didn't resurface, Lyle Decker said.
Search and rescue crews from various departments searched a 4-square-wide mile area for Craig Decker's body, but to no avail. Then, Lyle Decker accompanied searchers on a boat Tuesday evening — around the same time of day his son disappeared, and he was able to lead them back to the general area where his son disappeared.
"Some things really gelled," he said.
Lyle Decker said he and his wife were in a frantic state of mind Saturday night after their son didn't resurface so they couldn't remember where their boat was when the tragedy happened.
"Memories, when you're in a crisis, get kind of in a jumble," he said.
After the helicopter spotted Craig Decker's body, which surfaced in the general area of the Saturday disappearance, it was pulled from the water and taken to the medical examiner for an autopsy, Cannon said. He also said authorities are still uncertain what caused Craig Decker to drown.
"There's no telling that now," he said.
Cannon said the Deckers expressed relief when their son was found.
"There were tears, but there wasn't a sense of despair," he said. "They've worked their way through it as well as any one I've ever seen."
Lyle Decker said his family appreciates the different agencies and volunteers who searched for their son. He also commended them for their efforts.
"We hope none of you have to endure a similar situation," he said. "But, if you do, you're in good hands."
Lyle Decker said his son was a determined young man who was fixed on living his life to the fullest after he lost his right hand when a Mexican firework exploded as he was holding it on New Year's Eve 2006. Craig Decker learned to adjust to life without a limb and posted several tutorials on YouTube, under the screen name "captaindanger384," teaching others how to type on a keyboard, tie shoelaces or open jars with one hand.
"Challenges make us stronger and better," Decker wrote on his YouTube profile. "With creativity and patience, we are capable of much more than we ever imagined."
Decker's sphere of influence reached farther than his parents imagined. Sean McHugh, 44, of Catasauqua, Pa. — a friend of Decker who inspired him to post instructional videos on YouTube — said he attended an Amputee Coalition of America convention a while ago, and several people talked to him about Decker's videos. They said they hoped to bring Decker out to a convention to speak to fellow amputee survivors.
"They were very impressed for how well he was doing," McHugh said.
Abe Niederhauser — a longtime friend — said Decker was an outstanding individual who was never down on life, even after he lost his hand in the accident.
"I was probably more devastated about it than he was," Niederhauser said.
Decker's sister, Emily, said her brother was an energetic individual who often did things just to show people he was still capable, such as driving a stick shift with his hook prosthetic.
Decker's girlfriend, Jenae Walker, said he drove a stick-shift car on the night of their first date. She also said he still liked to light off fireworks.
"He still thought they were cool," she smiled faintly.
The family is glad to have recovered the body, Lyle Decker said, but they don't like to think they've reached "closure."
"Our love continues," he said. "There's nothing to close. He's just visiting somewhere else for a while."
Check out Craig on YouTube. Craig was a great friend to us and I think about him often. We learned of Craig's dissapearance when we returned from a 4th of July camping trip last year. I remember falling onto my bed...unable to hold back my tears. "God, please let them find him!" I cried for a few hours. I was in complete shock. I had never had a close friend suddenly die like this before. One minute he was sitting with me in the break room at work talking about life, love, and the meaning behind it all...and the next...he is on the news as, "Missing BYU student." Craigs brother immediatly emailed me when they found his body. While driving around town I couldn't bare to look over at the lake while he was missing. I became obsessed with thoughts of, "I can go help, I want to find him. I'll go find him...he is okay, this is a mistake...not Craig."
I am still in disbelief that someone so great could be taken away from this earth with the snap of a finger. It really throws life into perspective.
Craig did it the right way. Optimism. He was always looking up...even after his hand was blown to shreds...he kept a smile on his face.
He never let me pass his side without a smile and warm hello, high five, or positive thought for the day.
http://www.youtube.com/captaindanger384
"Remember...you can do it, you just have to find a way" - Craig Decker
Name: Craig
All joking aside, I have learned some powerful lessons through that experience. (Surprisingly, most of them have very little to do with firework safety!) Although what occurred was tragic, I believe what I have learned has made me a better person and will continue to bless the lives of many people.
1. Don't buy fireworks in Mexico!
2. There are some things in life that we simply cannot control. (If I hadn't blown off my hand, some other poor sap would have!) It's okay. As we let go of those things quickly and completely, we become free.
3. "Men are that they might have joy"! Life is good. Laughter heals. Life is funny. There are funny things that happen every day even in the worst of situations. Bad days make good stories. There is a time to laugh and a time to cry. It's funny that laughter and tears come together so easily.
4. The atonement of Christ brings peace and healing "that surpass all understanding". We come to know ourselves and we come to know God through our trials. We are surrounded by miracles. When we trade self pity for humility, our eyes are opened to see them.
5. There is so much life to live! Why waste time worrying and stressing about inconsequential things? Spend time doing what matters most—the things that bring the most light and joy to life. Enjoy the ride.
6. Challenges make us stronger and better. With creativity and patience, we are capable of much more than we ever imagined. Our perspective determines our reality. (There is nothing that quite compares with the feeling of accomplishment gained from tying your shoes with one hand for the first time!)
7. We can always lift others, no matter how bad of a situation we are in. It is a divine gift. The only true and lasting joy comes from forgetting ourselves and helping those around us.
Hometown: West Jordan
Country: United States
Occupation: Student
Schools: BYU
I am sorry for your loss, I hope that you are finding some peace.
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