Sunday, August 23, 2009

Where Did You Come From Where Did You Go...


-So today there was no church due to a temple dedication and I had a lot of extra time on my hands. I decided to go back through my old blogs and see what my goals were last year to be reached before the end of this year...Check out this blog post from Monday, October 6th 2008.


"What is she going to do with her life now?"

GERMANY! I am saving up to travel to Germany to visit some family this year! (maybe bring some friends?) (Check)
CONCERTS! Any and all...I want to live it up this year. (Check)
CAREER! I figured out what my career will be, and I am now putting it into action. (Check)
FAMILY! I want to sit down with my family and find some way to get to know each other better. (Check)
DEBT. (No exclamation point here...) I plan on getting out of debt by spring. (Check- PAID OFF MY CAR and credit cards!!!)
WORK IT! I have been working out a ton. I would love to run a marathon. (Check-still working on the marathon but I am more toned than ever before)
CREATE! Whether it is a beaded necklace or a new company... (Check)
LOVE! I want to find my Prince Charming. Emphasis on Charming. (Check- Not that I found my prince charming...but I have learned to love and trust again!!)
TRAVEL! I already have some pretty fancy plans for a Thanksgiving on the beach this year...but I hope to get out every other month to a new place I have never been before. (Check)
PRAISE! I will be growing closer to God through all of these experiences. (Check)
FRIENDS! My goal is to grow closer to all of my friends and have spiritual and fun moments with them. No shallow conversations. I have also been QUITE bold lately in making new friends. More people to learn something great from. (Check)
LEARN AND LISTEN!! I am working on being a better listener, and taking advice from people who care about me. I have been practicing meditation and mind exercises to expand my attention span. (Check)
SO many things to do in so little time!!
Enjoy your journey and remember to stand in the light.


K so basically I accomplished each of these goals!! I actually WENT to Germany when at the time I wrote this I had NO idea how I would get there...I just knew I needed to go.
I thought it would take me until October 2009 to accomplish these goals and I covered them by July. Creating goal lists, to me, is like making a Christmas list. "Who do I want to become...I get to choose! What do I want to do? I get to choose!" It is like sitting down and thinking, "I can have whatever I want from life...what few things do I want to ask for this year...what few things can I set my mind to?"
I am going to NOW set another goal list for next year.

Grades-
I want to keep up my 4.0 next semester. This is a high goal but I believe I can do it.
Strength-
I will continue to tone and strengthen my body.
Travel-
I want to travel more this year. Seattle, Canada, and Oklahoma are on my list of places to go.
Love-
I will love to the best of my abilities and trust in God that my prince is getting ready for me as I am getting ready to meet him.
Safety-
No more texting or talking on the phone while driving.
Painting- I LOVE painting. I will set aside more time to sit down and paint.
Deutsch- I will continue to strengthen the family relationships that I created while in Germany and continue to learn the German language so that I can better communicate with them.
Let go- I have a really hard time letting go of the past and I want to box up the bad parts of my past and let them go for good. I have come so far from where I was at this time last year, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.
Service- I will participate in a major service event this year. I will know when the right opportunity arises.
Calling- I will ask for a calling and fulfill it to the best of my abilities.
Piano or Guitar- I will broaden my musical abilities.
Politics- I will participate in political events, and try to better understand politics in general. This is a weak area for me.
Math phobia- I will overcome my math phobia and become excited about obtaining mathematical skills once and for all.
Financial Security-
I am going to build up my savings account and food storage this year now that my debts have been paid off.
Knee high boots- I have always wanted knee high riding boots and I am going to finally buck up and buy them this year.
Learn to swim and CPR- I will learn how to swim better and I want to become CPR certified.
Family Prayer- Maybe it will be at Christmas or Thanksgiving...but I want to pray with my entire family...all together at once.
Sell it- I have it, and I love it, but I can't keep it, and must sell it.


K I think that is my list!! This year I did so many things that I have ALWAYS wanted to do that should be documented.
Sleeping under the stars
Going on a real horse back ride in the mountains...no trail, and running through a field with my horse.
Getting in shape
Traveling over seas
Meeting my family
Getting a GOOD job
Getting INTO school and doing WELL in school
Learning a new language
Updating my old wardrobe finally. (I still never buy dresses...but I need to and will.)
Wearing my hair curly, often.
Loving again
Trusting again
Growing closer to my family
Making new GOOD friends
Staying temple worthy
Discovering that people talk about you and say what they think about your situation...but they never truly know...because they have never and will never be in your shoes. Truth always prevails and karma persists.
Learning to relax and go to bed at a good hour. (This is a huge one for me)
Positive thinking
Writing music again
Jumping in the lake...even though I was scared
Buying a new camera and taking lots of pictures
Buying cowgirl boots and my first pair of skinny jeans and leggings. haha
Wearing a bikini and feeling confident wearing it
Learning new card games and being good at them
Being there for my family no matter what.

WHAT a year it has been. :) Enjoy your semester and make time for little adventures here and there.

5 comments:

  1. You are such a talented and gifted woman Melinda. Keep shining :)

    - Daniel J.

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  2. I feel like you just wrote in my yearbook. :) You are amazing.
    Thank you for being soooo wonderful to me.

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  3. I love goal-setting and I especially love goal-reaching. Such a good feeling! You should add one more goal: Hang out with Elisse more. This is our year!

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  4. Ahhhh!!! Elisse!! We will!! That is another new goal on my list. I will make more Elisse and Melinda time. :)

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  5. how awesome that you are continually making goals and achieving them. keep it up!!

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